THE 3 SEX LIES GIRLS TELL THEMSELVES!!
As girls, we all have that ex we occasionally kept sleeping with, or that guy we really liked, knowing he didn’t want to commit- but we kept telling ourselves little lies like “Im happy were just “Bed Buddies”..so we could continue sleeping with them and not feel guilty?!
Well here is the THREE most common lies we tell ourselves and the reasons NOT TO!!
1.Your head says: ‘It’s just one last shag for ‘old times sake’ like?!
SoSueMe says: ‘Step away from the ex, NOW!’
It’s impossible to have no-strings sex with an ex. One of you will secretly be hoping you get back together. If he dumped you and you still hold a torch for him, this is like pulling a plaster off slowly.. very slowly, its just way more painful in the end. If you did the dumping, be decent and adult, DON’T lead him on. The answer is to do lunch, or wedge time with him in between other plans so you can’t go home together.
2. Your head says: ‘I’m happy just being bed buddies’
SoSueMe says: ‘It’ll end in tears.. and lots of them’!!
Most women don’t pursue sexual relationships without emotion. Subconsciously, you’re hoping he’ll fall for you over time. But men tend to choose the path of least resistance. If you give him easy access to sex and fun, he’s not going to have an overwhelming change of heart and decide he wants to add relationship issues to this equation- HONESTLY. Sex with you is worth holding out for, so think “donkey and an out-of-reach carrot” — he’ll want it more!!
3. Your head says: ‘It’s better to date someone than no one at all’
SoSueMe says: Ehhh ehh WRONG…‘That’s a waste of time and lipgloss’
Dating Mr Average for the sake of having a date is a sure sign that your self-esteem needs hiking up. You may be giving in to pressure from your coupled-up friends to deliver juicy date stories. Remember, you can only be in one place at one time. While out with a man you’re lukewarm about, you could miss out on colliding with a 10/10 hottie. Plus, if you believe in dating karma, it’s not nice to string someone along.” Even if he is the best cocktail purchaser.
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